
This month is a very special month for many of us. Heart Month, Valentine's Day, and CHD Awareness Week! I know it is important to many of us to bring more attention to CHD. Not many people realize what families are going through. What the children have to go through. Olivia has had her first, second, and third staged surgeries as well as five heart catheterizations and countless procedures. She spent over 100 days in the hospital her first 16 months of life and an additional 30 since then. Our little angel has come such a long way…At 8 months old Olivia decided she no longer needed the feeding tube. At 9 months old she began to sit-up by herself. Next, at 14 months, came Olivia's very first steps. Then she mastered crawling, walking, and talking. At 18 months, Olivia could spell her own name. At age two came potty training and art work. Once she reached age three, there was no stopping her! Olivia acted like an 'old soul.' It was at this age Steven and I had to prepare Olivia for her next surgery. This brought on many questions about God and Heaven. Olivia really grew-up in 2011. This year she has really blossomed into a delightful young lady. She helps around the house and even earns an allowance. Preschool has given her quite a bit of confidence, as she is not shy what-so-ever. We also received a new diagnosis and a new prognosis this year regarding Olivia's left arm. We took her to a specialty clinic in Minnesota where they confirmed Olivia's stroke and Hemiplegic CP, due to the brain injury. They also gave us hope, with the option of Botox injections to help Olivia use her left arm functionally. This goes to show, our journey with CHD will never be over. This is something CHD families have to face all the time. Even though the ‘planned’ surgeries may not be looming over our heads, there is always something to keep us awake and our hands on the wheel in the journey.
I tell you what, there have been plenty of ups and downs over the past 4 years, but I wouldn't trade it for the world. Each time I gaze down at my beautiful daughter I find it hard to believe what she has been through. To think that was my sweet Olivia lying in that hospital bed fighting for her life tugs at my heart. I have to push those thoughts away and focus on the miracle she truly is. The pain and suffering are behind us for now…It's now that we need to stand up and spread the word. To be honest, my husband and I had never really heard of a Congenital Heart Defect before Olivia's diagnosis. Now, we're amazed at how many others there are similar to us...fighting this life long battle.







Did you know?
~About 1 out of every 100 babies are born each year with some type of Congenital Heart Defect
~Though research is ongoing, at least 35 defects have now been identified.
~Nearly twice as many children die from Congenital Heart Defects in the United States each year as from all forms of childhood cancers combined, yet funding for pediatric cancer research is five times higher than funding for CHD
~For every dollar provided by the national medical funding arm of the American government, the National Institute of Health (NIH), only one penny is provided for pediatric research, and only a portion of that penny goes to support research on heart defects, the most common birth defect.
Also, for adults cardiovascular disease is America's No.1 killer, causing more deaths each year than cancer, diabetes and accidents, combined. And while there's a myth that heart disease affects mostly men, today it is the leading cause of death in women, killing one in three, while breast cancer kills 1 in 30 women. Symptoms for women are much different than men. Know your numbers and keep an eye on any strange symptoms you might be having.
Valentine's Day is a very special day. It is a day we celebrate our loved ones and those very dear to our hearts. It's a time for flowers, chocolates, and enjoying each others company. But it is also a day very special to our family; it is “A Day for Hearts.” We celebrate the survivors of CHD and the angels watching over us. We try to spread hope and awareness for those unfamiliar with the disease.
A DAY FOR HEARTS: CHD Awareness Day is an effort to highlight to the public the problems posed by Congenital Heart Disease. This awareness, it is hoped, will lead to an increased demand for, and attention to:
*research funding
*formation and assistance to support groups
*education of the general public
*enhanced standards of care to CHD patients worldwide
Praise God for giving us the opportunity to walk this life long journey. Praise God for giving us the gift to celebrate the small things in life.
A couple of weeks ago My Aunt Lisa, Olivia, Thomas, and I went to Clinton to visit my Grandma and Aunts and Uncle. Grandma lives on a farm with a huge sledding hill I used to go down as a kid. When Olivia found this out, she couldn’t wait to see it. This little girl loves to be outdoors, whether its 10 degrees or 110!
The first time down Aunt Lisa rode with Olivia…A few seconds after they took off I see another passenger hop on the back. It was my grandma’s farm dog! Every time I look at this picture I just crack up!

By the end, Olivia was ready to race down the hill on her own! I couldn’t believe how brave she was.


After that, we headed inside for some lunch and visiting.



It was so nice to see everyone. Wish we could do it more!
Things have been steady around The Spencer Household. We manage to stay pretty darn busy. Just the other day I asked my mom, “How do these people find time to make all of these delicious recipes…let alone take pictures of them and post them on their blogs and Pinterest? I barely have time to update carepages. What am I doing wrong?” She smiles and says, “I think your house is a little too clean for having two young kids and you working four days a week.” Ahh, maybe she’s right…Then again, there’s always more I could be doing or feel I should be doing. The kiddos have had a pretty nasty cough for quite awhile now. I took them back to the doctor last Tuesday. He gave them both a Zpack and tested Thomas for strep. Luckily, no strep. However, Thomas continued to run a high fever all week. He wasn’t swallowing all of his med no matter how hard I tried, so I called to see if we could get him a shot of Rosephin to kick that nasty bug to the curb. I took him back in on Friday to find out he has a double ear infection! Poor baby. Needless to say, they did the shot and we got a script for Tylenol suppositories (I know, fun, fun…but better than a sleepless, screaming baby!). He started to feel a bit better on Sunday, but still isn’t himself.

When Thomas does feel himself, he’s either mopping, sweeping, or playing with the vacuum. This kid loves to clean! Too bad when he’s old enough to show him how, he won’t be interested anymore!
On Monday Olivia had her Cardiology check-up in IA City. We were scheduled for an EKG, XRay, and ECHO. Gram was nice enough to go with us this time. I can usually handle it myself if need be, but when we’ve got all of these tests, chasing a 14 month old around and trying to pay attention to pertinent information is next to impossible! Olivia is getting to be pretty brave anymore. She charms these doctors and nurses pretty well! After the Xray we headed over to the cath lab for Olivia’s ECHO. She held pretty still through most of it. When we got towards the end she asked, “Am I doing a good job?” The lady said, “Yes, very good.” Then Olivia turned to me and asked, “Am I doing a good job, Mommy?” I told her how proud I was of her. Once we were done and it came time to take the three stickers off that monitor Olivia, she freaked. She does not like EKGs because of the umpteen stickers they rip off of you when they’re done, so this sent her anxiety sky high. She cried and cried. Dr. Law (Olivia’s Cardiologist) waked by the waiting room and saw Olivia crying. He came and sat down, asking her what was up. Olivia looked at him with her big, sad eyes and told Dr. Law she was scared of her EKG and she didn’t want one. He asked her why and she told him how much those stickers hurt. Next thing I know, Dr. Law is telling her she doesn’t have to have one this time, but she has to pinky swear to have one at the next visit….Ha! Got what she wanted once again! Ohh, Miss Livi-Pie.
Overall, they were pleased with the way things are going. Dr. Law thought Olivia’s SATs were a little low at 85%. I had been complaining about this from May-Oct. but no one seemed too concerned. I guess being a little further out from surgery they would expect the fenestration (pop-off valve they use with many Fontan’s) to start to close. This would increase her SATs. One risk of having the fenestration is stroke. However, putting Olivia through another procedure right now to close the Fenestration when she seems to be doing ok, is probably more of a risk. So, we are to keep doing what we’re doing and come back in 6 months. Whoo hoo!!!
Take care,
DON’T FORGET FEB 3RD IS WEAR RED DAY!
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